too harsh

i can be too harsh at times.
at myself and others.
hence all the criticisms and complaints.

but i don't know since when...i've changed.

i'm still as harsh. unfortunately.
but i've started to separate the individual from the context.
i've started to look deeper, trying to dig more meaning behind the actions.

then i realize...it's not hard to do this. you just have to make an effort to do it.
and it all became clearer.
and you gain more insight and understanding, which is so much more liberating.

i just hope i don't lose this.