3 days ago, i received a mail from someone i got acquainted to four years ago in a three-day camp.
he told me that he finally accomplished what he wanted to do at that time, even though it's only three years later that he manage to do it.
i was really surprised when i received the mail. but of course i was glad also that he went through with his dream. at least now he'll have no regrets for not completing what he started a handful of years ago.
but what surprised me most was him saying that the encouragement i gave him those few times helped him a lot.
i had no idea at all. i had no idea those few words could influence someone like that even after all these years. considering i lost contact with him for almost three years now. i'm baffled, totally.
i only helped him analyze his situation and what he could do if he decides to go through with his decision.
and gave him a few words of encouragement coz i knew he needed it.
and to be honest, i still remember feeling somewhat burdened by the responsibility he placed on me at that time. it felt like i was pushing him in a direction that was impossible for him to take when in fact it was his decision to make. like he was only pursuing his dream because of what i said.
it was a big responsibility for me to take. back then and right now.
so much so that i really had to think carefully about the words and tone i use when talking with him.
it's hard to believe that i had such an influence on someone.
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