it's really hard to observe people without staring at them.
even though u try to be as inconspicuous as u can, the person whom u r observing will tend to stare back at u, sending u the message with their body language: "What u lookin' at? So rude."
all my life i have done my share of observing n being observed. n i tell u, it's really hard not to evoke negative feelings when u're the one observing n hard not to feel offended when others r observing u.
i prefer to call their staring as observing as i couldn't really tell which is which. also...to defend my observing as not staring. *shrugs*
observing without staring is really an art. one i'm doing my best to master, regardless whether i'm a psych student or not. coz i really like people-watching. damn interesting.
oh...n observing people without judgment, contempt, prejudice n all other negative opinions u feel from their eyes. n not giving a damn about what other people think of u when u catch them observing u... now there's your challenge.
i dislike those judgmental aunties who condemns those who they don't understand through their eyes. IMMENSELY. show some respect, people.
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yea i do that often too. but i like looking at their clothes also lar.
which is a bit judgmental also.
but then afterwards yea people will start looking at me and I will turn away.
i dun think its only aunties lar, it happen to everyone,haha or is there a story behind?
yea...i do admit i do this sometimes. but i try not to lah...coz u won't wanna be at the receiving end rite?
yes...got story. but this kinda story happens all the time. so nothing really special, really. it's just i have the sudden surge of anger over this issue. haha =)
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